Your higher self is not anywhere outside of you.
It is above you and below you and behind you and before you and inside of you and all around you.
At a higher level of consciousness
You are it, at a lower level of consciousness.
Get into the deepest altered state you can and you begin to align with your higher self.
By this means, you start to merge with that which already is.
you are that which you seek.
you just forgot.
This is the great secret of the non dual.
Absolute truth. No ambiguity.